Internet Dating
Online Dating Menu

FInding a Safe Dating Site
Internet Dating Its Not For Geeks
Dating in the New Millenium

Press Releases
MatchUp Singles Releases Video of Smart Card in Action
Online Dating Guide, At, Helps Singles Make Educated Decisions
Had a Dream Date Want to Tell the World

Resources 1
Resources 2
Resources 3

Home > Articles > Little Known Dating Tips, Secrets and Dating Mistakes

Little Known Dating Tips, Secrets and Dating Mistakes
by John Alanis

I hear it over and overIt was going so great, and then she disappeared on me why? What happenedwe were having such a great time together. Im tired of this happeningI want to date sexy women, but I want them to stick around. Do you have any dating tips for me?

Yes, I do. Every time I talk to a guy who tells me this, I discover hes making the exact same mistakes most guys do, dating mistakes that kill his chances of successfully dating sexy women. So, I give him some dating tips to skyrocket his success with sexy women. Here are the most common ones

You may also like this article:

Online Dating – Confidence Builder

Most of us have different levels of confidence. Im sure you have met a variety of confident types. Im just as sure, that all of us have had our own confidence shaken once or twice. I know I have.  [More >>]

Dating tip #1: Dont date. Yes, thats rightdont date. Think about a traditional dateits full of pressure, awkwardness, evaluation and it just plain sucks. What do you do on a traditional date? Dinner, movie, kiss goodnight, she doesnt return your calls. Or you have drinks, and try to make your move, and we all know where that ends up. Much better (and cheaper) to meet for coffeeits fun and relaxed with none of the normal dating expectations.

Dating tip #2: The less you do and say, the more shes attracted to you. Most guys try to impress sexy women, or lay a rap on them. Sexy women have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself, shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest, shell begin to wonder why youre not slobbering all over her. Shell want to discover more now youre a challenge, and sexy women love challenging guys. Why? Because they rarely meet one. This is a HUGE dating tip

More on a related subject:

How Fast Can We Do It Speed Dating Online and Off

In an effort to cut down the time between meeting and mating to as close to zero as possible, up has popped Speed Dating

For the uninitiated, speed dating happens when groups of singles meet together at a predetermined location. In an organized fashion, these folks talk to each other individually for under ten minutes (usually six to eight) per person, then switch to the next one in line. Next, each single rates interest (or no interest) in pursuing each contact. Afterwards, the organizers put the parties who indicated mutual interest in touch with each other, with what happens next up to the individuals concerned. Sort of like an adult version of Musical Chairs  [More >>]

Dating tip #3 Be a naughty little boy. Another big dating tip. Remember the class clown in elementary schoolthe guy who was cool and funny all at the same time? When youre talking to sexy women, make unexpected and mischievous comments, the kind that leave them thinking, I cant believe he just said that but I like it. This shows sexy women youre NOT impressed by their looks, that you need to see more. This is so different from what theyre used to they cant help but be attracted. I cannot emphasize the importance of this dating tip.

Dating tip #4 Avoid all canned pick up lines, laying a rap, or any type of acting. Sexy women have heard it all before, and as soon as you spout one, youre instantly a JAG (just another guy). And JAGs dont get sexy womenremember this dating tip!

Dating tip #5 Sexy women are approached and hit on 20 to 30 times a day. This is their worldto get into it, you have to be different from the 20 guys whove already talked to her. (see Dating tip #3 for how to be different to sexy women).

Dating tip #6 Look out for her tests. Sexy women (indeed, all women) will test you to see if youll stand up to them. If you cant stand up to her, you cant stand up for her. If she asks you to buy her things, thats a testand a perfect opportunity to be a naughty little boy (see Dating tip #3). Say something like, What do I look like an ATM machine? You should buy ME something, just for the privilege of spending time with me. I like sexy women who buy me things! This is said in a playfulyet firmmanner that lets her know youre onto her. When you pass their tests, it drives sexy women wild with desire. Very important dating tip.

Dating tip #7 Date multiple sexy women at once, and make sure the others know about it. Sexy women love a man who is attractive to other sexy women, and will compete to win you. (Heres another dating tip: for proof of this, read any good romance novel). If you want to settle down, you can choose one, but she will always know youre desired by other sexy womenand in a strange way, this creates even more attraction for you. This dating tip really is a secret, but it works very well with sexy women.

OK, guys, thats it for this article. Obviously there are lots of other dating tips, tricks and secrets to put to use, but if you pay attention to these dating tips, youll be a heckuva lot more successful with sexy women. Now, go re-read all the dating tips!

On with the fun

-John Alanis, Dating Tips Master
The King of Let em Come to You

Want more dating tips? To discover how to be successful with sexy women, and for more great dating tips, see

John Alanis is the author of Secrets of Natural Attraction: How to Get Desirable, Beautiful Sexy women to Chase You. He also publishes a daily politically incorrect attraction and dating tips newsletter that reveals how to get desirable, beautiful sexy women to approach men for a date first, no matter your looks, age or income. You can subscribe to Johns daily sexy women approach you secrets by going to Upon subscription, John immediately sends you five free how to get beautiful, sexy women to approach you! reports, chock full of hidden secrets dating tips.


More Articles
Does Internet Dating Work

Whats the Number One Question that Everyone Asks About CyberDating

Everyone — and that included YOU! — wants to know: “Does Internet Dating Work?”  [More >>]


6 Great Online Dating Safety Tips

Online personals and dating is a great way to meet that special someone, however it is important to approach it with safety as your first priority. While most online services are very secure and do a good job at helping ensure your privacy and confidentiality, you are ultimately responsable for your own safety.

Most services do not pre-screen their users, therefore they cannot assume any responsability for the people you meet through their sites. This officially grants you the title of screener, a responsability which you must take very seriously. After all, if you are comfortable and feel secure online, you will have much more fun with online dating!

 [More >>]


Press Releases >>
Brits Love Playing Cupid

Brits love playing cupid: 62% of people in the UK have set a friend up

(PRWEB) September 24, 2004 — Preliminary results of the mates4dates Dating and Friends Survey ( ) for the UK reveals that 62% of people have played cupid and set their friends up with other friends.

 [More >>]


Online Dating Guide, At, Helps Singles Make Educated Decisions

According to the United States Census Bureau, nearly 50% of all U.S. marriages end in divorce. Many singles develop romantic relationships with incompatible people, which is a contributing factor in the high divorce rate figures. Online services now offer methods to find a compatible person to date. ( has created a comprehensive guide to help singles find the dating website that suits them.

(PRWEB) June 2 2004–Approximately 50% of all U.S. marriages end in divorce, according to the United States Census Bureau. How do these statistics affect health and stress levels? Dr. Thomas H. Holmes and Dr. Richard H. Rahe are experts on stress and its relationship to illness. They developed a list of the most stressful events that can occur in the life of a person. According to Holmes and Rahe, divorce is the second most stress-inducing event, after death of a spouse.

 [More >>]